Nature has found a way to make human birth possible by minimizing our thoughts. Labour support can mean different things for different people, some may choose a small room, with dim lights, minimal conversation with one quiet, experienced, comforting person in the room, waiting patiently. Others may be surrounded by many friends &/or family. Either way, we need privacy and protection from having to pay attention.

Ways to support labour

• Support and counselling can help to relieve any misconceptions or fears.

• A doula or experienced support person can provide undivided attention throughout. 
  

• Labour starts spontaneously.

• Comfort, distraction and privacy allows you to respond to the strength of labour uninhibited.

• Staying mobile; upright postures encourage descent of your baby into the pelvis 
  

• Be oblivious to the passage of time particularly when labour is slow.
  

Some other practical helpful suggestions

Keeping your bladder empty.

Imaginary practice can be helpful: breathing through two consecutive 50-second long imaginary contractions with a minute in between; your uterus is strong, imagine yourself relaxing after your uterus has relaxed.

Sleep in between contractions –there is often more ‘muscle relaxed’ time in the hour than there is ‘muscle tight’ time (contraction). In the early stages, it is possible to sleep through some contractions, stronger contractions wake you and you get through it and then return into a drowsy state, until the next contraction.

Drinking & eating small regular nourishing snacks during your labour.

Your baby’s heart is listened to throughout your labour with a doptone or continuous monitoring if required (cordless if available).

If you would like an epidural, talk to your nurse and primary care provider.

Perhaps consider using non-pharmacological pain management options such as massage, meditation or acupressure. ‎

Once the baby’s head has passed through the cervix, the baby then moves down onto the perineum. This generally happens slowly as the uterus continues to become smaller with each contraction. It can even be a time for a nap. With a subsequent birth this part generally tends to move along faster. As baby moves down further onto the perineum, the pressure may feel as if you need to go to the bathroom. Try to soften and loosen to ease baby’s journey.

If coaching seems prudent, you may be encouraged to actively push. You may rotate through several different positions to maintain comfort and to encourage your baby’s descent. 

Protecting your perineum 

Once baby has moved down onto the perineum and under the pubic bone, baby’s head (or bottom if a breech) will be visible as baby descends with each contraction. Intuitive spontaneous urges to push may happen at this stage. You may feel a lot of rectal pressure.

Using one or all of our senses may help at this stage:

Hearing: listen to the voices of encouragement, support and coaching.

Seeing: viewing with a mirror to direct and encourage effort, especially helpful if an epidural has removed any sensation and intuitive pushing urges. (Fake those urges if you can!).

Touching: if able to reach with a hand to gently cup baby’s head, or perineum, a sense of touch can be comforting and reassuring. A birth attendant (or support person) can also gently hold with a warm or cool cloth if it feels helpful to you. 

A warm, private feeling of safety as you hold your baby skin-to-skin after birth promotes the release of your hormones to help birth your placenta and encourage the uterus to contract. Usually the placenta births within five to ten minutes after baby. 

Baby will be lifted by you or your provider to rest on your chest.

As your baby takes their first breath, your nurse/midwife/Dr will be watching, drying and massaging to make sure your baby is safe. Generally there is no hurry to clamp and cut the (umbilical) cord and baby stays with you.

If baby needs more stimulation, then the cord is clamped and cut and baby is assessed on an infant warmer in your room, which is designed with equipment to help support a baby. Occasionally a newborn may need help with breathing for a brief time and then is returned to you as soon as baby is stable. 

If your baby needs longer, ongoing support, the pediatric team would be present and baby may be transported to the Special Care Nursery (SCN). Your support person can accompany baby so that you know where baby will be cared for. Baby may need time and support to adjust to life outside of you. The special care nursery nurse and pediatrician will be there for you and baby, and will explain what ongoing care baby may require.

It may be emotionally difficult for you and your partner to be separated from your baby. As soon your placenta is birthed, and you have had some time to recover then you would be taken to the nursery on your way to the post-partum unit. You will see and talk to your baby and hold hands and meet the team caring for your child. It may or may not be possible to breastfeed at this time. Perhaps you have already hand expressed some colostrum, which the baby will receive when ready to feed.

Anaesthesiologists are available 24/7 if you request/need an epidural. 

After the epidural has been placed, it takes about five to ten more contractions before the sensation has gone. When you can no longer feel the contraction let your body relax and sink into your bed, hopefully, you can now catch up on some sleep. 

Blood needs to be taken and an intravenous infusion of Normal Saline (IV) started, prior to the epidural insertion. Your blood pressure and baby are monitored after the epidural insertion. 

An urgent situation involving either you or baby can suddenly occur. If this happens the obstetric, anaesthetic and pediatric team are called immediately and in consultation with you, may necessitate assisting to birth your baby as quickly as possible either by encouraging your pushing effort with or without forceps or a vacuum or a swift move into the operating room for a caesarean birth. 

Every one of your team of providers responds quickly and precisely, keeping you up-to-date, staying with you until the situation is resolved. 

This is a unique situation that you may wish to review a few days or weeks after the event with your providers, so that you can recall what happened and why and how it may have impacted your expectations and recovery.